written by a guy.

We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys. But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there. We don’t care if a guy calls >OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're
pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don't
be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad'. We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you.

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's, or my T-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brat Pitt, or Jesse McCartney in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful'? I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand I'm not saying i wouldn't like it ether

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowes

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes….and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance.
Guys re-post this if you agree.
Girls re-post this if you think it's cute.
-Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will re- post this

ADVICE:

*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too…
And mean it

*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with her.

And Boys. If you like a girl, just
TELL THEM. There's nothing to be afraid of. And if you don't , you'll regret it your whole life. They might just like you back, take that chance, its worth it !

-Girls re-post as: written by a guy
-Guys re-post as: girls need to
realize

-If someone really really loves u and u break up, he or she will come back for you! because that's the beautiful part of True love!

and so it went.

1. Longest relationship:
- half a year
2. Shortest relationship:
- less than 48hrs. haha whatev.
3. How many people have you broken up with?
- uh… 7?
4. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you that they love you?
- a lot
5. Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person you were with?
- totally
6. Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt?
- honestly, yes.
7. Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?
- … i’m not sure.
8. Have you ever cried over a boyfriend or girlfriend?
- no. i cried over someone else.
9. Are you happy being single or in relationship?
- um… single, i guess. i really dont know.
10. Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend or girlfriend?
- nahh
11. Have you ever been cheated on?
- ya think?
12. What is the most important PART of being in a relationship?
- trust
13. What is the worst part of being in a relationship?
- lies
14. Worst relationship?
- …
15. Have you ever had your heart broken?
- obviously, but ironically, it’s never before by a boyfriend
16. Do you talk to any of your exes?
- yeah…
17. If you could go back in time and change things to where you could still be with one of your exes, would you?
- maybe… but no.

NY resolution.

It’s a bit late. But whatever.

1. Don’t skip out on homeworks. : I always skip my homeworks. Bad habit.

2. Finish what I’d started. : always do things halfway. Never get the job done. Well, I do, but.. not in time.

3. Do more exercise, i.e. swimming.

4. Try not to swear so much.

5. Don’t spend too much money on luxuries.

6. Speak more Malay.

I guess that’s about it.
oh! and my mum wants me to wear tudong this year onwardrs. I don’t think it’s gonna work.. She’s been doing this for three years. It’s just that… It feels weird, that’s all. I’ll start wearing it sooner or later.

HELLO!

First update since… FOREVER! Okay, so… Hello ^^) i bet no one’s bothered to check my blog anymore.. HAHA i was gonna blog about graduation, prom and camp… But… I guess it’s a bit ‘bangas’ now. Next post lah kali.
So, my family and I (cousins included) went to KK for our December vay-kay. My dad had been planning it with his brothers months in advance so… Yeah. I can’t say no to it. We stayed up in the mountains where it was friggin COLD, like 10 degress celcius, or something. I didn’t know we were gonna stay there so I didn’t pack any warm clothes. we stayed there for 3 nights, one day extended cz SOMEHOW one of my uncle’s car broke down. so yeaaah… I got sick because of the weather.

And when we came back to brunei, i stayed at my grandparents in Lumut for a week. Now, I’m back in bandar with a tiny hole in my heart. Something’s not right. but yeah… I’ve to come back home anyway… so here i am.. blogging again. so, hi

p.s i’m always on twitter. feel free to follow me http://twitter.com/iamemmajames

So…

Was gonna make a video log instead, but.. Gots no Internet connection on PC so… This will have to do.

So… My birthday’s in 3 hours! WOHOOOO! *rollseyes. Right… Not so excited about it though. I’m not looking forward to it. Well, not that much anyway… I’ve got early greetings on facebook.. Thanks
idk, but i’m not much of a big fan of midnight greetings. Prefer morning messages times ten. *flips hair. hahaha but yeah, whatever, it’s the thoughts that counts, right?

a sad, sad birthday. happy birthday to me!

MelFy KathJoLee

it’s Monday and I’m feeling empty.

I’VE GRADUATED LAST NIGHT! Was one of the best nights of my life. :’)
I was a candle wisher, and I went up on stage during the choir with Lee, Mel, Kath, Caroline, Dijah, Andy and everybody! :’) Shook hands and hugged with the teachers after the choir. Annen, Teacher Mili started to cry, and everyone started to cry :’) Miss Veronica Chan said “it’s what you call tears of joy.” I can’t believe I hugged Teacher Anne too! Like, I thought I never would. She’s a nice person at heart. May God bless her.

Every single little stress and frustrations endured for the past week worth every second of it cz everything turned out to be awesome. :’)

And we had fireworks too!

I am now proud to say that I’ve graduated from Chung Hwa Middle School! you’ll be missed :’)

OMG what?

Exam’s down to three papers left. Mine ends on the 16th of this month. God… Can’t wait for all of this to be over. I still haven’t revise for my Commercial Studies. What HAVE I been doing for the past month? It’s like a bad habit for me, yknow.. Studying on the day before exams. Cramming thick chapters into my tiny head. It’s funny how a simple question of 3 to 6 points requires a large amount of explaination. Paper one’s tomorrow. I feel dreaded. I feel like.. Time is flying away too fast, but in fact, I’m the one who’s wasting it, instead of it slipping away from my hands.

I will study later.

So, anyways, Cindy and Mel, and, Lee and I, pulled ourselves out of the singing competition. Teachers assumed that it was because of exams, but… We just didn’t want to. Sure, we got ourselves into the top 5. but we just sang (during the audition) just for the fun of it. Though we pulled ourselves out of it, we still had to sing because apparently, somebody had to win the trophies. So, they made a schedule for us to sing on the nineteenth. ==” ah well… Sing or die. It’s a competition. I hope I won’t humiliate myself on stage. ==”

Keeping it quiet.

I don’t see the point of keeping my personal posts public. It makes me look like a sad, sad person who don’t belong anywhere. I’m still gonna make them public though, just not every post. If you wanna read any particular ones, just DM me on twitter and I’ll give you the password.

anyhoos, someone’s birthday’s coming up real soon. *coughs* not mine. but it’s…. MEL’S! I’m still scheming something ebil for her. Sorry for breaking the news, honey, but you’re still gonna get a birthday. Maths or no maths, you’re still gonna grow older by a day Nothing personal. Just brace yourself for something unexpected. –or something like that. haha

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Late supper

Today, I had my dinner at 5 (close to 6) and finished at about half an hour later cz everyone in the house went out for a swim ‘cept for me, of course. I only cooked veges and eggs with soy sauce and ate them with some rice. There’s nothing else edible for me in the fridge, so that will have do.
Mum didn’t cook dinner cz they went out for food, so… I got hungry by 9 and made myself supper. Again, I looked through the fridge and only found some eggs and french breads. So, I made scrambled eggs with 2 eggs and ate them with thin slices of bread and cold tea.
And all of this got me thinking… What if I was living with my housemates instead of my parents, out of stored food and we’re living on $10 each on the last week before pay day… and we can’t borrow any money from anyone, I’d say… Be prepared to eat the same food for your most of every meals cz you’ll have to face it. It’ll probably be the only thing you can afford during that time. You’ll never know.
I know today that I can survive having eggs for breakfast, lunch, dinner and supper. (though, i’ll get sick of it by the third day and throw up) I just have to be satisfied with whatever food we can get.

I stayed with my cousins for awhile once during exam time, and we experienced the very same situation ‘cept that I had $5 and two of my cousins had $10 and $20 left. It was a hard week cz my cousin had to buy gas for the car. We suffered for about 5 days and our food stock almost ran out. So, we lived on Indonee and Nasi Katok. All in all, it was a good experience. It taught us how to do budget planning first before you plan to splurge your money on luxuries.